The beginning of every relationship is always fantastic with both
parties exploring to find out more about each other. Some relationships break
up sooner or later while others wax stronger and stronger.
There are so many challenges in every relationship. To me, the
greatest of all is compromising one's dreams and aspirations in other to make a
relationship work. For relationships that have transformed into marriages,
lack of compromise usually leads to separations and divorces.
Everyone has a dream. In spite of love, what happens if you find out
that you have to sacrifice your dream in your relationship?
It calls for love, trust, understanding and compromise to evaluate and
accept any new turn of events.
I heard the story of this woman who, in my opinion, is a classic
example.
She started dancing at a very young age (at the age of 2, I
think). She was a great young dancer who aspired to continue with that
career. She fell in love, got married and started having kids at a young age.
In as much as we can say that it was her personal decision and choice, one can
also argue that she could have insisted on either not having kids at all or
having them at a later age.
Anyway, she stopped her dancing career to look after the kids and
family. When her husband died (may his soul rest in peace), she decided to
go back to dancing since her kids are all grown up. Watching her dance at her
current age (in her 80's) is amazing. This proves that she is a natural talent. You
can never imagine that she can perform her choreography and moves.
Because of her understanding and love for her husband and family, she
sacrificed her dream when she was still young and more energetic. As destiny
and nature has it, she is still able to continue and realise this precious
dream of hers.
What other compromise can you think of?
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