How do you manage your household
chores? Whether you are married with or without kids, a single parent,
spinster or bachelor, there is always need to manage chores in every
household.
As a bachelor or spinster,
managing household activities seems to be somewhat straight forward. The lazy
ones wash their dishes when they have time or feel like. They have the liberty
of washing their clothes and leaving them hanging on the hanger until when they
need them or they can fold the clothes away and iron them later. But I bet that
they will always be active and tidy up when expecting visitors :-).
Not everybody is this lazy. Some
spinsters and bachelors like tidying and cleaning up as they go, leaving
everything squeaky clean.
Division of labour comes in when
two adults are involved. Depending on the individuals involved and their
attitudes towards household chores, there might be little or no grudges.
Partners without kids can easily
share the chores among themselves or leave the respective tasks open to be
completed by any one of them disposed at any point in time.
For couples with children, it is
always good to have the kids involved one way or another in keeping the house
clean. Depending on their ages, the kids might be involved in washing up,
cleaning/dusting, vacuum cleaning, etc.
It is true that some parents
might want their children to enjoy life by giving them no tasks at home, but such
parents should beware not to spoil their kids and make them public nuisance.
The same idea of having kids
involved in doing household chores applies to single parents as well, with the
exception of those who do not want their kids to do anything.
For me, I always believe in
having every member of the family perform one task or another. It creates unity
and gives everyone a sense of belonging. Working together encourages this intimacy and closeness that keeps a family
together.
It does not matter how we share
and manage the chores (who does what and when it is done), the main goal should
be to keep the house clean and functional, with everybody having a part to
play.
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